The Maine Irish Heritage Center helps people learn more about their ancestry through DNA testing and historic research.
Helen Donahue Frazier, right, and her daughter, Elizabeth Frazier, left, try on matching hats at a shop in Galway. Photo courtesy of Helen Donahue Frazier
In 2018, Helen Donahue Frazier visited the genealogists at the Maine Irish Heritage Center. She knew her father was Irish, but he died when she was 3 years old and had no living relatives.
“I had no Irish family before I walked in the door that day,” she said.
She found her family — and her passion. Frazier has since joined the team of volunteer genealogists at the Maine Irish Heritage Center who helped her do her own research. She answered five questions about their services. This interview has been edited for length.
How did you get in touch with the Maine Irish Heritage Center for the first time?
I didn’t know at the time that most everybody in the Portland area come from an area in Galway called Spiddal. In medieval times, it was a hospital, and it was set way outside city limits. As Irish like to do, we do too, we hack up our words some. They just changed it to Spiddal. Now it’s a town.
I did a DNA test from Ancestry, and I got 8,000 matches, and I have no idea who’s who here. My husband said to me, “You really need to go into the Irish Heritage Center.” So I went in, and Maureen and Margaret said, “We run a test through FamilyTreeDNA, and we have a project with them.”
I went to Portland High School. Looking through my list of matches, I’ve found six, maybe seven, people that I went to school with that I’m related to that I had no idea I was related to, and they didn’t know I was related to them either.
What did it mean to you to find more information about your family tree?
I never knew my father, really. I was too young. Even though I knew my mother, I didn’t know anything about my father. And there’s something about the Irish, it’s just a pull. It’s amazing. I went to Galway with my daughter, and I was walking on, it’s sort of like down in the Old Port, on Key Street. It’s right in the center of the Claddagh. I was walking on a street there, and all of a sudden, I got this tingling rush all through me that I have never sensed anything like this in my life. It was very strange to stand there and look at people and go, ‘Oh my God, I could be related to some of the people on this street.’ And I am related to a whole lot of them. I have cousins over there now. I was just talking to one this morning — 83. I have a lot of cousins that I talk to, which is so cool. It brings tears to your eyes when you start to realize that there’s so much that you missed out on that you never knew before. I missed out on a half of my family that I’ve never known, and I’m hurrying to catch up with knowing them now.
What are the steps if people want to get advice or start their research at the Maine Irish Heritage Center?
A lot of them come in with just a tree. A paper trail. And they’re stuck. Because the records are so incomplete. They’re lost, they’re burned. We recommend that if these people are trying to narrow it down, to take a DNA test with us.
A lot of it is confusing. They find records that say their great-great grandparents came on a ship from Cork, we’ll say. So they say, I’m from Cork, because that’s where my great-great-great-grandfather came from. He got a ship there. But actually, they didn’t. They went anywhere they could to get a ship.
We take two appointments on Fridays, and we charge $100 an hour to go over anything you want. We’ll go over your ancestry. We’ll go over FamilyTreeDNA. Margaret has the trees. Maureen can tell you who the people are. Matt can tell you the history of some of them. You get four of us talking to you, and sometimes it can be mind blowing. I know because I was there once.
What kind of records are you looking for in addition to the DNA information?
Dates are important. Birth dates, death dates, marriage dates. And when you find those, then you can move on to census reports. In the census reports, you can figure out when they immigrated, how long they’ve been married, how many children they had and the list of their children’s names. It’s just a trail.
I was so desperate one day to find out about my great-great grandfather from Island Pond, Vermont. I had come back from Ireland, and nothing. I was getting nothing on Ancestry. So instead of putting in all this information that I had, I just put “Martin Donahue” and “Island Pond, Vermont.” One thing came up. It was a Boston Pilot. It was a newspaper, and it was published so anyone here in the New England could put a notification in that they were looking for their family. Because they got off the boat and went different directions. So my great-great grandfather had put in a notification saying he was looking for his two brothers — Thomas, and I think it was Patrick — and the last time he had seen them was 18 years earlier in New York City. And that my great-great grandfather was from the Aran Islands.
We’re coming up on St. Patrick’s Day. Do you tend to get a lot of requests at this time of year?
Yup. There was a woman who wrote me a few weeks ago who wants me to go over her father’s Y-DNA because she doesn’t understand it. I said, “Don’t wait, because it’s going to start filling in, right?” I keep getting more and more people who want to come in.
The Maine Irish Heritage Center is located at 34 Gray St. in Portland. Visitors can do self-guided genealogy research in the library from 10 a.m. to 2 p.m. on Thursday. The cost is free to members and $25 for anyone else. The genealogists are available by appointment from 10 a.m. to 2 p.m. on Fridays. The rate for a consultation is $100 per hour, and members get 50 percent off the first hour. For more information, visit maineirish.com or call the center at 207-780-0118.